Apache suEXEC help

[Ashley M. Kirchner]

    I'm utterly confused here and are at my wits with this.  Hopefully 
someone can help me out.  I'm trying to setup Apache's suEXEC to work 
with my setup and just having a hard time.  I have users that have their 
own domain, and the way Apache's configured is that each virtual host 
simply points to said user's 'www' folder (I don't use the ~user 
setup.)  Without suEXEC this works fine.  However, this also means they 
need to allow the apache user running their CGI's to write in their file 
space.  Not a desirable effect.  So, how do I setup suEXEC properly for 
this?

    apache's docroot /var/www/html

    users are under /home/user
    their space under /home/user/www/
    with cgi's under /home/user/cgi-bin/

    Right now, Apache complains that the cgi's aren't in docroot, which 
if I understand the documentation correctly, should be apache's 
docroot.  However, they live in the user's directories so they can do as 
they wish with them.  Moving cgi's to apache's docroot is pointless 
because users don't have access to that.

    Something just doesn't make sense to me and I'm sure it's so 
simple.  I just can't see it.

    Anyone?